Havener Family History

My great-great grandfather, Alexander Havener was born about 1797 in Prince Georges County, Maryland to the best of my knowledge. He married Martha P from Virginia and moved to Missouri about 1828. Iam looking for his parents. I believe one of the following couples are his parents.John and Linney, who married 1/19/1788, or a possible twin brother Andrew,who married Susan Haas, 2/9/1789, or Dominick who married Eleanor Upton on 1/31/1789, or Adam who married Sarah Bonafin on 12/12/1792 or possibly Michael who married Elizabeth Soper on 2/5/1793. I believe their parents to be Domicar and Mary Havener. Alexander had a brother Michael who also married Charlotte Workman of Virginia and moved to Missouri. Both settled in Franklin County, just west of St. Louis, Missouri.