INTRODUCTION
The following is a copy of a diary written by Charles
Trundle, began at "Milton Vale”, North Brisbane, Moreton Bay, Australia on
04/11/1856.
In April 1932 a copy was made by Mrs Gwen Trundle,
wife of C.E.Trundle, "Cooroora", Dragon Street Warwick.
A copy of this copy was made by Mrs. Kathleen Merle
Fitzgerald (nee Reid) 9 Dunella Street Sherwood, a great grand‑daughter
of Charles and Fanny Trundle. Another copy was made for Mrs Myrle Eldershaw
(wife of Douglas Eldershaw, who is the great great Grandson of Charles and
Fanny Trundle) in May 1971. A copy was also made by Myrle Eldershaw in February
1972 so it could be read as a lecture for the Queensland Women's Historical
Association on 8th March 1972.
The diary was handed from Charles Trundle to his son
Charles Joseph Trundle, to his son Joseph James Trundle, then to his son Joseph
Robert Trundle.
The original diary is stored as manuscript OM 79 ‑
2/28/2 in the John Oxley Library, Brisbane. It is titled "Trundle,
Charles, 1807 ‑ 1876.” and is not generally available for viewing by the
public ‑ being classed as an original manuscript.
This copy was made by Graham and Fay Donaldson in
March and April 1990, and was initially copied from a typed copy held by the
John Oxley library in Brisbane ‑ stored as manuscript OM 79.002/28. When
this was checked against the original diary, it was found that there were many
differences and large sections missing. This copy is as true a copy of the
original as we could make, considering the difficulties of interpretation of
the writings of Charles Trundle and the different language style used at the
time. Where we were unsure of the word, it has been shown in italics.
Graham Donaldson's grandmother's maiden name was
Florence Mabel Robinson, and she was a daughter of George Aldred Robinson and
Susan Robinson. George Aldred Robinson was a son of George and Fanny Robinson
(nee Trundle). Fanny Trundle was the eldest daughter of Charles and Fanny
Trundle.
DIARY OF CHARLES
TRUNDLE – 22/06/1807 to 06/04/1876
MILTON VALE,
NORTH BRISBANE, MORETON BAY, AUSTRALIA. NOV 4th 1856.
"Tell ye your children of it, and let your
children tell their children, and their children another generation."
Joel 1st Chapter, 3rd verse.
For many years I have intended to leave a few observations
relative to my ancestors. I have not had much chance or time to inquire or
trace very much of interest although to my grand children and great grand‑children
they may afford some interesting incidents.
At my demise I beg my dear son Charles Joseph, to take
charge of this book as trustee to all my children and grandchildren. Should he
wish at any time to give up this charge or have any other reason for not
holding it, I most affectionately beg him to hand it "entire" to my
dear son Edward Thomas and that I wish him make entries relative to birth,
death, marriage, or any thing which may hereafter be of interest or advantage
to any part of my numerous family or their connections, and I further request
that my son Edward Thomas do hold this book in trust for any and every part of
his relatives to see and read and on no account to lend it nor let it go out of
his keeping but to leave it in charge at his death to one of the family who may
be the most likely to hand it down to posterity.
May God add his blessings. Amen.
My great Grandfather is the furthest back I can trace
about 1731 (one thousand seven hundred and thirty one). He resided at Norwich
in the County of Norfolk, England and was master of a barge, which traded
between Norwich and Yarmouth. My eldest son, Charles Joseph, has a Silver Watch
Seal which did belong to him my great grandfather and whose name was Joseph
Trundle.
My grandfather (was born about 1750) whose name was
Joseph, Trundle resided at Norwich, Wymondham and Hingham, all in the County of
Norfolk, England. He was landlord of the "The White Hart" Inn at each
of these places. He died at Norwich and is buried in Bere Church. He was a very
intemperate man and used my grandmother very ill who was a most estimable woman
and I remember her well and have received many a kiss from her. Her maiden name
was Hasement from a respectable family at Attleborough, Norfolk.
She married a second time ‑ a Mr. Trundle from
Kings Lynn County of Norfolk and for many years lived in great comfort and
affluence at Gatton, County Norfolk. Mr. Trundle (second husband) died of a
fall from his horse and she came to reside at Hingham in Norfolk and died there
at the advanced age of eighty-two years.
By her first marriage she had
Joseph Haesment Born Dec 27 1773 Died
Charles Haesment Born 1775 Died in infancy
Elizabeth
Haesment Born 1776
Sarah Born 1777
John Trundle Born 1779 Died in infancy
John Haesment Born 1782
Ann Trundle Born 1784 Died in infancy
Ann Trundle Born 1788 Died in infancy
My father was apprenticed to a butcher in Diss County
of Norfolk and resided at Hingham about 60 years and died there much-respected
aged about 82. He was living and well in 1848 when I emigrated to this Colony.
He married my dear mother from Hingham who died there some years since aged 56.
Her name was Susan Bush. She was a most affectionate mother. Although I have a
wife and large family who share my most affectionate solitude, yet I most
tenderly and affectionately remember her, and often the tear of emotion starts
at her reverent remembrance. My dear daughter Elizabeth is‑very much like
my dear mother in size, features and temperament. My dear mother was always
reckoned exceedingly good looking. My fathers elder sister Elizabeth married a
Mr. John Gapp, farmer at Hingham, who died a young man and had by him Frances,
Eliza, John, & Letialia. If so she is now (80) eighty years of age. I
remember her well. My father's second sister Sarah has a rather weak intellect,
has never been married, and is living at Wisbeach with her sister Elizabeth.
John Heasment Trundle went for a soldier and died a
young man in Portsmouth barracks England.
My mother's father and mother lived and died at
Hingham, Norfolk, England. His name was Henry Bush. My thirteenth (13th) child,
my seventh son Henry Bush is the very image of him. I remember him well, and
also my grandmother. I was three years old and I remember her funeral. She was
nearly ninety when she died. Her sister, Mrs. Ram, was over a hundred years of
age when she died. I remember her also. My mother’s eldest brother Jonathan I
saw him just before we left England. He died aged 72. My mother’s eldest sister
Merriell was a Mrs. Greenwood. She lived and died at Norwich was 92 when she
died. I saw her about 4 years before I left England. She and I wept in each
other’s arms, my dear wife and daughter Ellen then a child being present, as
was her eldest son my cousin Henry Bush who I am very much like. This cousin is
now living at Norwich and has a lovely family of thirteen children; her
youngest son James Greenwood I believe is now living has generally been
unfortunate but very clever.
My mother and fathers children were
First my elder brother
John Trundle born at Hingham
Aug. 12th 1802. Died Feb. 18th 1819. This was a heavy trial to my poor mother
and she felt it for years after. I felt his death very much, being about 7
years of age. (Query made by Charles Joseph Trundle ‑ 12 years of age ‑
for my dear father was born in 1807)
Ann Trundle, my elder
sister, bore June 21st 1805. She married Mr. William Upcroft, printer of
Magdalene Street Norwich. She died about 7 years before I left England, and
left 2 children. Her husband is now living at Norwich.
Thirza Trundle, My youngest
sister was born Jan 25th 1810. Died single about 5 years before I left my
native country and is buried at Hingham churchyard beside my father, mother and
brother.
Elizabeth Trundle, my younger
sister, was born Sept. 29th 1814, and is now living at Hingham Norfolk. Her
filial duty and affection to my father for many years is above all praise. She
is a pious and excellent girl. My children from Joseph to Elizabeth remember
her coming to see us before we left England. I daily pray I may meet her in an
upper and better world.
I was born June 22nd 1807 at Hingham in Norfolk. I well
remember the Jubilee of the Reign of King George III 1810, the Battle of
Waterloo, Napoleons escape from Elba, the death of George III, his Queen, the
Princess Charlotte and all the royal family of their majesties.
I went to school free and all my books were the
Universal Spelling the Testament and Gays fables. I left school at twelve years
of age. At 15 I went as apprentice at Diss, about 20 miles from Hingham, to a
Mr. William Marsh watchmaker and general store. I remember when about 7 or 8
years of age being at school I often felt the Spirit of God drawing my heart to
love him, yet I had no idea that the Spirit was thus alluring me to love God.
About the age of 10 years I was persuaded to go and hear the Methodists about 3
miles from Hingham, a Sect then much spoken against and persecuted, and many a
time in going to chapel I had to pass through showers of stones, dust and mud.
None of these things moved me. To love God and to be made happy was all I then
thought about and desired.
After my father had got reconciled to my going to
Chapel, he gave me leave to invite the Methodist preachers to preach in a large
barn. I was so delighted and Hingham for the first time was put on a Methodist
Plan.
When I left Hingham the Methodist cause fell into the
hands of the Congregationalists and after a few years they built a Chapel,
which was opened by the lamented Martyr of Erromanga, Revd. John Williams and
where there is now a flourishing church. During my apprenticeship I was very
happy in a loving family and was much respected by them. No master ever gave an
apprentice a better character.
My Sundays were spent in towns and villages amongst
the Sunday Schools in distributing tracts, reading the Scriptures and praying
with poor and afflicted persons. When about 21 years of age I went to reside
with my Masters eldest son, William Marsh, by whom I was much respected, at
Harwich, County of Essex, England, where I became acquainted with my wife - her
maiden name being Fanny Moy Aldred. She was born at a village about 7 miles
from Harwich, "Wrabness", County of Essex, on the 26th October 1805.
She was brought up by an aunt who resided at Beaumonth in the same county,
after at Great Oakley then at Harwich. The first time I ever saw her I had a
presentiment she would be my beloved; although at that time I had no idea I
should ever speak to her. I paid honourable and affectionate addresses to her
about 18 months and found she exactly answered the description of wife I had
conceived. I had devoutly prayed when I did marry I might find a Pious
Methodist, a sensible and fine looking lass, and now, while I
am now writing I will match her against half the young girls in the world for a
pleasant and agreeable countenance, and lady‑like deportment,
notwithstanding she has presented me with 14 children, 7 boys and 7 girls, all
alive and well.
Dr. Adam Clarke, an eminent commentator and a most
sensible and good man says thus "Doubtless, the woman who loves her
husband and brings him the most children is the best wife." If this will
hold good, few men have had a better wife than myself.
I have ever loved her most ardently and do while I am
writing now, and my esteem is no less ardent for her good sense and propriety
as a friend, mother and wife.
I will now insert the names of my dear and interesting
family having more to say bye and bye of myself, my Fanny, her mother and her
family.
MILTON VALE NOV 5th 1856.
1st ‑ Charles Joseph Trundle, born December 12th
1830 at Harwich, County of Essex, England, as were the following 12 children.
He was baptised by Revd. Richard Gower, Methodist Minister, at our Wesleyan
Chapel Harwich. This Mr. Cower was closely related to the Gower family that
have ranked high at court since the Norman Conquest. The Duke of Sutherland at
the present time is the illustrious head of the house of Gower.
My dear wife took great interest in her first born
especially in training his mind; when very young he went into an attorney’s
office in Harwich, then to an office in London. He is a most affectionate son,
and a good brother and a valuable member of society. He married 1856 at
Brisbane ‑ Miss Grace Maidment, and is very happy and comfortable. We
named him Charles in respect to myself, Joseph out of respect to my father and
we would very much like to have the name of Joseph in this our eldest son's
family kept up.
2nd ‑ Fanny Elizabeth, born December 19th 1831
baptised September 25th 1834 by Revd. Charles Greenly, Wesleyan
Minister, she
married when 19 years of age to a Mr. George Robinson, a worthy and excellent man
and very happy and
comfortable.
We named her Elizabeth out of respect to my dear wife's mother.
3rd ‑ Ann Thompson, born January 29th 1833, and
baptised June 26th 1833 by Revd. Powell, Wesleyan Minister. She was named
Thompson out of great respect to a great aunt of mine who was wife to Captain
Thompson of the army. He died at Norwich. My aunt died at Stoke, Newington,
London. I was chief mourner. She was very kind to me and made me sole executor
to her will. She left half her property to my family and half to my cousin
Gapps. My daughter Ann is married to Mr. Theo. Parsons Pugh, son of Reverend
T.A. Pugh who is now an esteemed Wesleyan Minister in England. Of her dear
husband I shall only say now that myself and family esteem and love him most
affectionately. The old sword now in his possession was used by Captain
Thompson. How analogous!
Milton Vale Nov 5th 1866*
She died March 4th 1866. In her I lost an affectionate
child, a friend and councillor. For two years I grieved intensely so
much that I felt my mind weaken and bodily health impaired.
NORTH QUAY 4th MAY 1871.
4th ‑ Fredrick, born May 25th 1834, baptised
September 25th 1834 by Revd. Charles Greenly, Wesleyan Preacher. He is living
at Eagle Farm with his brother Robinson and has a heavy affliction, not having
perfect hearing or speech.
5th ‑ Aldred, born 20th July 1835, baptised by
Revd. John Hall, a Wesleyan Minister on 2nd October 1836. From love to my dear
wife I had him named her maiden name and I hope and affectionately request my
son Aldred will keep that name in his family from this time forth and for ever
more.
6th ‑ Ellen, born September 2nd 1836, baptised
October 2nd 1836, by the Revd. John Hall. She was a lovely babe.
7th ‑ Elizabeth Aldred, born July 10th 1838, and
baptised by Revd. Everett Vigis. She was named Elizabeth out of love to my
sister Elizabeth and Aldred from love to her grandmother Aldred. Married to Mr.
Alexander McLean on March 26th 1857 by Revd. Charles Ogg, Presbyterian Minister
at North Brisbane, Moreton Bay, Australia.
8th ‑ John Trundle, born November 1st 1839,
baptised May 23rd 1841 by Revd. John Bell, Methodist Preacher (one of the
excellent of the earth). I named him John in remembrance of my dear brother. I
hope and beg that this name will be kept in the family for generations to come.
9th ‑ Charles James, born Jan 26th 1841,
baptised May 23rd 1841 by Revd. John Bell. I wish and affectionately beg of my
son Charles, if ever he has a son, that his name be Charles out of respect to
myself. The name James I had out of respect to Mr. James Hart, who was for many
years was kind to my dear wife when single. When he died he left her £10 for
mourning, and made me a present of £40, besides being already very kind. He was
always pleased my wife got so good and kind a husband.
10th ‑ Hannah Mary, born August 15th 1842,
baptised by the Revd. W.H. Rule, Wesleyan Minister, now a Doctor Rule. She was
named out of respect to Miss Hannah Mary Blumer, a most amiable young friend of
my dear wife, and who is now married to Revd. John Owen, Wesleyan Minister.
11th ‑ Clara Balfour, born February 7th 1844,
baptised by Revd. Theo. Pugh, Wesleyan Minister. We gave her this name out of
respect to a lady in London who on one occasion showed my dear wife much
sympathy and respect. This lady is a very clever literary character and an
authoress.
12th ‑ Edward Thomas, born April 15th 1845,
baptised by Mr. Pugh. I gave him this name out of respect to Mr. Edward Archer
of Liverpool, and of Thomas out of respect to a companion of mine, Thomas Vince
of Hingham, who died aged 19 and was my only companion when I first went to a
Methodist Chapel.
13th ‑ Henry Bush, born Feb 25th 1847, baptised
by Revd. John V. Alexander, Wesleyan Minister. I would much like the name of
Henry Bush be kept in the family as long as there is a Trundle living.
PS Brisbane 4th May 1871.
On Sunday last 30th April, my beloved son Henry had a
fall from his horse at Nebo, Leichhardt District. Telegram reached us on
Wednesday 3 May almost assuring us he was out of danger and recovering, but
this morning a telegram came to say that he had died at 5am, and would be
buried at 4pm this day. A painful dispensation to us all. Most distressing.
Charles Trundle, his sorrowing parent.
14th ‑ Sarah Salmon Finer, born March 26th 1850
at Fortitude Valley, Moreton Bay, Australia, baptised by Mr. Lightbody,
Wesleyan Preacher. We named her Sarah out of respect to my aunt Sarah and also
out of respect to Mrs. Sarah Salmon of England, a valued and much loved friend
of my wife. We would much like the name of Salmon to be kept in the Trundle
family.
I am very thankful I have no more names to add
thinking for all conscience sake, I have thus far done my duty and that out of
my family these items would be thought more of a romance than real.
PS. The name of Finer was given out of respect to my
wife's cousins, who resided at Tendering in the County of Essex, a large,
respectable and amiable family. We should much like this name to be kept in the
family. Also the following names, Turner, Church, Hart.
How proud I am thus to have my name around the country
spread.
Elizabeth Turner Aldred, my dear wife's mother, was
born in Wrabness, county of Essex. She was housekeeper for a number of years to
Mr. James Hart, bachelor, and much respected by him. At his death he left her
£300. When she resided with us at Harwich till her death, she was tall, well
disposed, an excellent disposition, and, I believe, died in the favour of God.
We were married at Dovercourt Church Oh, about 2 miles
from Harwich, by Revd. William Bull, Church of England, on the 25th December
(1829). It was a snowy and windy day. We had our wedding dinner at Diss, the
residence of our dear friend Mr. Hart, and in returning home in the evening we
were thrown out of the vehicle twice, no one receiving any harm. Mrs. Salmon
was bridesmaid, and Mr. Salmon gave away the bride.
I commenced business in Church Street, Harwich, then
resided in King Street, afterwards in Market Street. Upon my family increasing
I commenced the Cement Stone trade, and in that capacity I crossed the North
Sea to Hamburg, went into Denmark, and returned in safety to my family. I also
held a license for some years as an auctioneer under a bond of £500 and two
securities of £250 each. Notwithstanding trade continued in a most depressed
state and my family increasing, I turned my attention to emigrating to this
Colony and after some reflection and much prayer I resolved to sail to
Australia.
When I closed my business, I was in debt £1000. I paid
£950, leaving debts due to me at the end of the year to pay the balance.
After 6 days sale, my family left Harwich Sept. 8th
1848 and slept on board that night the ship Fortitude lying in the West India
Docks, London. On Thursday 14th 1848 sailed from Gravesend. The Fortitude was
an excellent ship, John Christmas a very good Captain. We had a long but safe
passage in which as a family we received many mercies for which I trust I have
ever felt devoutly thankful, and we thought it our duty on the first Sunday on
shore publicly to return thanks at our Wesleyan Chapel for such mercies
vouchsafed. We anchored on Sunday in Moreton Bay, 20th January 1849 and went on
shore at Moreton Island for 3 weeks, being considered in quarantine. We came up
to Brisbane on 15th February following and lived in the Court House about 6
weeks.
On 13th March, I hired an acre of ground of Mr.
Duncan, the same now he has under his cultivation. I built a house, if such it
could be called. It cost me about £10. It had no windows and compared to the
comforts we had just left it was a great trial and needed far more patience,
submission and Religion than I ever thought I should require to bow to my
circumstances and although I always strove (and did so generally) to have a
cheerful countenance, yet my heart was sorrowing hourly to see my dear wife and
children despoiled of civilisation and comfort, nor could I forbear "Lord
help me or I perish", so difficult did my trials appear.
I commenced butchering, but did not succeed. Then I
worked a horse and dray and after two years I built a brick cottage in
Fortitude Valley where I lived about 18 months. Then I removed into the
Settlement and opened a general store in Queen Street North Brisbane (at the
corner of Queen and Albert Streets) and where I am now conducting my business
(1856), and where part of my family are now living.
But myself, wife, Hannah Mary, Edward Thomas and Sarah
are now living with Mr. Thomas Dowse at Milton near Brisbane.
I shall now go on with these memorandum relative to
myself, my dear wife and Mr. Dowse.
Let my children, grandchildren and great
grandchildren, when reading these notes, think that I was perfectly aware that
I am hastening to that Bourn from whence no man returns. It is under a sense of
duty to them and perhaps they may afford them some little instruction at least
some amusement at their grandfather's tales. I am well aware that these
memorandums will often cause my dear children and grandchildren to speak of us
when we are mouldering in our silent graves, and after struggling with the
Elements of Life, there is no appearance of leaving anything for our dear
children but our prayers, God is my witness how often do I bring my dear family
to the Throne of Grace, one by one and say, "Lord, bless the lads".
MILTON VALE Nov 18th 1856.
I wish to leave a few memoranda relative to my
political and religious views and conduct.
At the passing of the Reform Bill in 1830, (a most
important measure for the extension of the Peoples Franchise) I became a
zealous Reformer. I took great interest in all reform movements in the Borough
of Harwich. On several occasions I presided both as Chairman and Vice Chairman.
On one occasion at one public meeting I had the honour of being chairman for
one of Her Majesties, Major Generals Sir Dudley Hill. It came about thus: When
the General came into the room lie was received by immense cheering. As soon as
it had subsided he said "My friends, I will thank you to appoint a
"airman for the evening". Amongst the company was the Chief Constable
who whipped me up in his arms and carried me to the top of the room and placed
me in the Chair and said "There General, there is your Chairman. I might
have brought you a bigger, but I could not have brought you a better". I
think I was the smallest man in the room. I was supported by the General on the
right and a London Attorney on my left. I gave the General satisfaction and he
in an appropriate speech proposed my health, which was drunk and sung with
"He's a jolly good fellow, and so say all of us". I drank water,
which was my custom on such occasions. I am still a Reformer I might say a
Radical. I hope my children will always vote on the side of the people and as
much as possible in a legal way do all they can to keep down the aristocracy.
"The devil take these great ,men,
They think all
men made for them" (Werner.)
About two years before I left England that is in 1846
or 1847 I was the leading overseer of the Parish of St. Nicholas, Harwich. It
was an important, unpleasant and profitless office and I always thought I lost
from two to three hundred pounds that year.
Before I married I was solicited to have my name put
on the Wesleyan plan as a local preacher. This was done by the Superintendent
of the Circuit, who had known me some years the Revd. John Robert Browne, an
excellent man and good preacher who is now in heaven. I took two 1/2 year plans
and spoke during the 12 months at Dover Court, Little Oakley, Great Oakley,
Beaumont, Kirby, Ramsay and Wrabness. I was always well received at these
places and was treated with real Methodist kindness. I was unexpectedly called
from the Circuit, and the Superintendent retained my name on the plan for 9
months, thinking when I returned I should resume my appointments. I however
sent a message "Viz" That I had married a wife and could not come,
nor did I resume my position in the Church till I came to this colony. I had an
invitation to go to the German Station. I did go once and was well received,
but I soon became disgusted with the
Maladministration of Methodism by Messrs. Watsford and
Millard that I desired Mr. Millard to leave my name off the plan. He said he
regretted that and assured me it was not his wish. Mr. Gereke, a German
missionary, expressed himself thus. "Why do you thus if you have no
ability to preach?". I am sure I have not. Mr. Gereke was considered a
very fair local preacher. A local preacher from England and a sensible man
assured me that he never heard me but to pleasure and profit. I have thus been
desirous of alluding to this part of my life because I think & have done
for these forty years past that a consistent Wesleyan Local Preacher is one of
the best members of Civil Society and one of the most useful and brightest
ornaments to the Church of God. I should think myself highly honoured should I ever
know one of my children or grandchildren was a Wesleyan Methodist Local
preacher. Nothing would delight me more.
I forgot to mention one circumstance, which may afford
my posterity some pleasure to reflect that their grandfather was an honest man.
The letter will speak for itself and I now give it
entire.
"We, the undersigned trustees acting under a Deed
of Assignment executed by Mr. William Marsh of Diss, Norfolk, Silversmith, for
the benefit of his creditors, do hereby certify that Mr. Charles Trundle has
been employed by us to sell, reduce the stock in trade, receive monies and keep
the accounts from the commencement of the business till the date hereof and for
the manner in which he discharged the duties confided in him, we entertain the
highest opinions of his honesty and integrity. Witness this our hands”
Fourth day of December 1829.
Joseph Calver, James Lucock and Henry Potter.
Trustees.
(They paid my board and gave me £50)
I was very pleased with the letter as it came unsought
or unexpected and the property in my charge amounted to about £2800, no mean
sum for to manage with credit.
I will now give my posterity some account of my dear
wife as I believe I may hold her up as a pattern first as a Wesleyan, as a
Christian, as a friend, as a wife, as a mother.
First as a Wesleyan. She, when young, joined the old
body and up to the present time, November 21st. 1856 she has continued a steady
and consistent member and she has always loved and been loved by the preachers.
As a Christian. She has been humble and sincere nor
has she ever given occasion ever for her goodness or been spoken ill of. Those
Christians who have been the most intimate with her esteemed her most.
As a friend. Those friendships she contracted when
young were matured in after years and in her riper years the source of
pleasures only known to those who really know the value of friends.
If
every polished gem we find
Illuminating
heart or mind
Revoke
to invitation
No
wonder friendship does the same
That
jewel of the purest flame
Or
rather constellation.
As a wife. Were I to trust myself here my children and
their posterity might think that I was a foolish old dotard and it might have
the appearance of insincerity. Besides she says, every husband praises his wife
if she is ever so indifferent. Therefore, as I might err, being mortal, I must
need go to the immortal word of God and I now give her character from the 31st
Chapter of Proverbs, beginning at verse 10th.
"Who can find a virtuous woman? (Charles Trundle
has, King Samuel), for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband
does safely trust in her, she will do him good and not evil all the days of her
life. She openeth her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of
kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eatheth not the
bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed. Her husband
also and he praiseth her. Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman
that feareth the Lord she shall be praised."
As a mother. She has been most assiduous in the
discharge of her duties. Most tenderly has she always watched over the health
of her children, cleanliness and plain nourishing diet have ever practiced, on
no occasion giving deleterious drugs and physic for one of her fourteen children.
Dillwater, Godfreys Cordial, Roaches Embrocation, Soothing Syrup, Laudanum,
Paragoric Castor oil and salts are most abominable Poison. She has
always let nature have a fair chance instead of giving such nostrums. I would
here affectionately beg of my children and grandchildren to copy so splendid an
example as their grandmother has exhibited and they will have no trouble or
expense nor doctors bills. Parents could in most cases as easily raise 14
children as one or two. In England 3 out of every 7 babes are drugged to death
or killed by the over and foolish fondness of mothers and in my conscience I
believe instead of it being rather a singular circumstance of our bringing up
14 children, did people in general adopt our method they would average 8, 10,
12, 14, 16 & 18 children in a family.
My wife has been equally solicitous for the health of
their minds. When young they have been prevented from drinking. In vain, silly
foolish and wicked books, nor allowed to associate with vain, silly and foolish
children. She has given them as good an education as her time would allow
although she much regrets in most of her children their education is very
defective owing to our general embarrassed circumstances and emigrating at the
time we did prevented her accomplishing what she so ardently desired. I have
known her to have a babe at the breast, keep school, instruct her own children
and being overwhelmed with needlework. I think I am not wrong when I here
transcribe my opinion "Viz." That no children were ever blessed with
a mother who has aimed at their moral training and in having correct view and
just principles bought judiciously before them. She has given them line upon
line, precept upon precept, and an example exceeding all precepts. I pray if it
be the Will of God she may long be spared and that she may see the fruits of
her valuable labour and at the day of judgement she, with myself, may be able
to say that unspeakable language
"Here are we Lord, and the children that thou
gavest us"
Amen and Amen.
"All this and more endearing still them all, they
constant flow of love, that knew no fall.
I have often been very pleased and proud of your
Grandmothers talent for writing verses and would hope some of her posterity
will inherit such a heavenly taste.
Her various duties have prevented her cultivating her
taste in this respect although she has written many highly interesting pieces a
few of which I propose inserting further on. I think them sensible, pious,
unassuming and poetical.
AN EVENING HYMN.
Author
and guardian of my youthful days,
Subject
of angels and of mortals praise
Grateful
to thee my prayer shall now ascend
While
at thy mercy seat my knee I bend.
I
mourn to think my heart so prone to rove
And
leave the only object worth my love.
I
sigh to think I should his spirit grieve
And
fear to trust his goodness or believe.
Forbid
my pride, my very vain desire
And
renovate my soul with holy fire.
Purge
every thought, subdue each rising ill
And
with thyself my fainting spirit still.
N.B. Written
when a lass.
ON THE DEATH OF A
LITTLE GIRL.
Disrobed of
mortal day
Her happy
spirits flown
To that World of
cloudless sky
Where sickness
is unknown
Though death's
chill clamps bodily shrouds
Her sole has
soared beyond the clouds.
Perhaps an
infant band
She saw
descending down
Her happy soul
to land
Before the
eternal throne
To place her at
the saviour's feet
With songs of
joy divinely sweet.
Freed from the
toll of life
She sits above
and sings
Nor fears the
noisy strife
Of Earth's
inferior things
Sweetly she
sweeps the golden lyre
To notes which
seraphs minds inspire.
No more her
pretty ways
The tedious hour
beguiles
No more she
hears the praise
Of her fantastic
smile
Stretched in her
coffin's narrow bed
She sleeps among
the quiet dead.
N.B.
Written when a maiden.
I am now in my 50th year and have seem something of
human life and as long as I can recollect I have had something to do with and
at public houses. I would wish to leave my views on temperance and
intemperance, more especially as this country is much more likely to create
habits of intemperance than the Mother Country. I would most seriously and
affectionately caution my children and grandchildren to be most watchful, most
guarded, most prayerful against this accursed and insidious sin shun public
houses on all occasions as you would some plague (except on business occasions
which sometimes is unavoidable). There is a poison in the cup and death in the
pot and the surest way and safest is never to touch nor taste any drink
containing alcohol. I would strongest advise never to take wine, beer or
spirits as medicine which is often a subterfuge for drinking those things. But
should any of you take anything, let it be done openly and honestly, and at a
meal never on an empty stomach and than never more than 1/4 of a pint or a 1/2
pint at a time. This may sometimes serve as a tonic to the stomach and assist
the appetite but a cup of Calomile Tea about 7 in the morning occasionally is
one of the finest tonics in the world and in a point of utility is worth more
than a barrel of beer or a hog head of spirits. Temperance in eating and
drinking is a virtue, which bring a present reward. Totally abstaining from
alcoholic drinks is a sure and safe certificate specific for good health, long
life and happiness. I think I hear one of my grandchildren or great
grandchildren say “I wonder whether my grandfather was a teetotaller "I
answer” No, my dear, I am not. I occasionally take h pint of ale or
porter". I do this because it serves me as a tonic and assists my appetite
and second because I like it occasionally. But I would on no account advise any
of my posterity to follow my example in this respect and what may be safe and
right for an old man of fifty to do would be neither wise or prudent for any
young person.
I will now leave two or three remarks about smoking.
This is also a habit much practiced in the Colony, and a most pernicious and
injurious habit. It is more insidious and health destroying than drink. The
great evil with most persons is they smoke to excess. They men are slaves to a
killing pleasure. I beg most earnestly of my grandchildren and their posterity
on no account to think of such a foolish and enervating habit.
But did not grandfather Trundle smoke? Yes he did very
moderately nor did he begin till he was over 40 years of age and that because
Grandmother seemed pleased he should do so. Should any of my posterity follow
their Grandfather's example, let them do so by abstaining till they are over 40
years of age.
About the middle of 1855 the bank of New South Wales
in Brisbane called in their monies in a sudden unexpected and disgraceful
manner. This course produced stagnation in trade and ruined many persons in
this place and more or less affected all classes. For 12 months I struggled
against the current but was at last obliged to consult with my creditors. I
laid before then a debit and credit account and stated all my affairs and
liabilities. After this they were disposed to keep me on in business and gave
me 4 months to see if trade would improve, leaving me in possession of all my
books, monies etc nor did they seem at all to doubt my integrity. At the end of
this time I called them together again and expressed a wish that my business
should be mended or ended. Mr. George Chrysty of the firm of Towns and Company
pronounced my estate good and believed it would realise from 13/‑ to 14/‑
in the pound. At this time my eldest son Charles Joseph (who was Mr. Buckley's
representative) offered a composition of 10/‑ in the pound, which they
accepted and was paid immediately. I gave up all to Mr. Buckley and had 4 days
sale of my stock (Viz) 16th, 17th, 18th & 24th March 1857. I have also
given up my six freeholds to Mr. Buckley and have realised (not finished)
MILTON, BRISBANE, APRIL 16th. 1857. (Date refers to
above)
When I found I could not meet my bills and that my
creditors might suffer less on my account and that I might be brought to
distress and ruin, I first considered it ray duty to study as much economy in
my then large family. I was most diligent in my business. I then daily prayed
that God would support my mind, keep me patient in my tribulations, and
preserve me in my integrity Although my trials in this matter were very great,
yet I believed that God would in his mercy bring me thro and that the trial
would be blessed to mind and I most earnestly pray that the remainder of my few
years here may be spent devoted to Him, whom I am & whom I serve. The
mercies I especially felt are-
First my dear son Aldred (who was in business with me)
has got an honourable release.
Second, I believe I have forfeited no man's good word
or lost my credits.
Third None of my dear children or any part of my
numerous family have suffered thro my misfortunes nor have I lost their
affection and esteem which next to the Favour of God, I prize my
greatest treasure.
My dear son, Charles Joseph was the principal
instrument in bringing me thro, and his steady and uniform kindness have
endeared him much to my already strong affection towards him.
MAY 18th, 1857.
MILTON, NORTH BRISBANE,
I have now been collector for I month for the Free
Press. I am thankful for this employ although there is much to do and little
pay. There is still a great depression of trade and the long continued rains
have had a most distressing influence upon the interest at Moreton Bay, and
many failures have taken place. My 10 children who are away from my roof are
all well at this time and for which I desire to be truly grateful to Almighty
God for such unspeakable mercies My four children who are now with me as also
my dear wife are all well (except Sarah who is rather poorly). As to my own
health and spirits they are excellent and I have not had so much leisure and
little care at the present time during the last 30 years of my busy life.
During the last 25 years I have been most anxious to
insure my life or to take out a policy for my dear wife in case of my decease.
I never thought I could afford it or I could not conscientiously do so as I had
thought it would be taking my creditors money. So for many years I have given
up the idea as hopeless. During this month my dear son Charles Joseph proposed
to the other parts of my family that they should all unite and take out a
policy for myself and dear wife. They have done so for; to be paid at the death
of either of us, so that I have had done for me in a way that I could not have
thought and at a time when I had no idea what I had been striving to do for 25
years. It is a great consolation to my mind.
MILTON JUNE 22nd,
1857
I am this day 50 years of age. I feel in bodily health
as well as I ever did. I have not an ache or pain nor a grey hair upon my head,
yet two things convince me I must be getting into years. First I cannot read or write without spectacles,
secondly my children are most of them young men and women having four married
and have three grandchildren My daughter Robinson was confined with the third
on 18th instant and yet I must be young looking as my eldest son the other day
was taken for my brother, during the last 6 months I have more leisure and
peace of mind and freer from anxious care than I have had during the last
30 years indeed so great is the change that I often fancy it cannot be real I
am aware I cannot be sufficiently grateful to that being who has thus far
guided my steps and bought me such circumstances may I ever have grace to keep
me humble and thankful, since I have known
any thing of God either in his providence or his grace I have not felt so
fully determined to love and obey him as I do at the present time and I hourly
pray the remainder of my days may be spent in preparing to meet him in the
skies seeing my days are few in this world what manner of person I ought to be
in all manner of holy conversation and Godliness this one thing will I do I
will forget the things that are past and press forward towards the prize and
the mark of my high calling which is of God thro' Jesus Christ my Lord and
Saviour I am resolved never to pass another day without making the salvation of
my children the subject of my solicitude and prayers May God help me to keep
and practice this resolution for Christ's sake Amen.
SEPT. 24th, 1857
Hingham cottage. Came here this day my family self,
wife, Hannah Mary, Henry and Sarah ‑ all well. Praise the Lord.
NOV. 8th
My insurance in the A.M.P.S. is now complete and the
first quarter paid. My will I made this week. It is in mother's possession,
witnessed by Mr. W. Mason and Mr. Robert Cribb, two esteemed friends. I am
still reporter to the Free Press; enjoy much comfort and good health. This week
my son, Charles Joseph, sold my bush cottage for £100 and part of the quarry
and one allotment to Mr. Scott. How much I have to be humble, thankful,
grateful and cheerful for all my family are well all united, all kind and
affectionate to me and my Dearest Dear.
I pray that ‑
Up into thee my
living heed
May I in all
things grow
Till thou has
made me pure indeed
And spotless
here below
Amen.. Amen.
_DEC19th.
This day my little grand‑daughter Margaret
Elizabeth McLean came into this world. Mother and babe doing well.
DEC. 31st, 1857.
What an eventful year ‑ no accident, no calamity,
no bereavement in my numerous family, and as a family we may emphatically
acclaim "Goodness and mercy have followed us through 185711. 1847 was a
most painful and eventful year in England.
JAN 1st. 1858.
All well, all well thro out my numerous families Thank
God May this year be the best spent and happiest I have yet had if spared
through I cannot help recording my strong impressions that I shall not live the
year out It may be only fancy; yet I am resolved one thing I will do, I will
leave the things that are behind and I will press on towards the mark of my
high calling and daily pray.
When the mighty
work is through
Receive
thy ready bride
Give me in
Heaven a happy lot
With all thee
sanctified.
Insert by Fanny Trundle.
Another proof that strong impressions are not always
to be regarded, as this is now the sixth day of February 1870 and my dear
husband is a well and cheerful as usual, and his wife hopes he may long
continue so.
Signed Fanny Trundle.
I will now once more write all my children's names so
that I may see them at a glance and that the sight of them may act as a
stimulant for me to pray more earnestly for them and, which is my only vision for them. I often think if I had
money what a good father and father in law I could be.
My Dear Son Charles Joseph
Daughter in law his wife
Grandson James Joseph
Daughter Fanny Elizabeth Robinson
Son in law Fanny Elizabeth husband
Granddaughter Fanny Maria Robinson
Granddaughter Hester
Grandson Aldred
Daughter Ann Thompson Pugh
Son in law T.P. Pugh
Son Frederick
Aldred
Daughter Ellen
Daughter Elizabeth
Aldred McLean
Son in law A. McLean
Granddaughter Margaret Elizabeth
My Dear Son John
Charles Trundle
Hannah Mary
Clara Balfour
Son Edward Thomas
My Dear Son Henry Bush
My Dear Daughter Sarah Salmon
Finer
May God bless them all with much peace which passeth
all understanding is the prayer of their affectionate mother.
Signed Fanny Trundle and their dear affectionate
father Charles Trundle.
JANUARY 16TH. 1858.
This day have received a letter containing the
sorrowful news of the death of an old much esteemed and valued friend Mr.
Barnes He was a man in every respect worthy and I feel it's an honour I have
been the acquaintance and friend of such a man. The following extract is sent
with the letter.
(No extract included.)
(At the bottom of
the page is written
"May my last end be like his" Amen.
JUNE 22nd, 1858.
This is my 51st birthday. I am quite well. I kept it
in the following way.
Thirteen of my
children were to tea.
Five of my
grandchildren
One daughter‑in‑law.
Two sons-in-law.
My friend Mr.
Mason.
Mr. Wilkinson,
our respected minister and friend and
Revd. and dear
friend Mr. Turner
My dear son Charles Joseph was unavoidably absent at
Ipswich, also my dear son in law Alexander McLean was unavoidably absent I wish
on this occasion to make an acknowledgment of the goodness of God to me, my
Dear wife, children, and family connections. Mr. Turner gave out the page in
our hymnbook then read and expounded the Psalm in a truly and characteristic
and excellent manner most affecting and profitable. Mr. Wilkinson concluded
with equally suitable excellent prayer.
After the service was ended my dear son in law Mr T.P.
Pugh in the name of my children presented me with an excellent Life of Martin
Luther embellished and elegantly got up inside this book was a handsome present
of four pounds thirteen shillings and four pence. Also the following verses
from my dear son Charles Joseph Trundle.
To my dear father on his 51 birthday.
Another natal day
dear Father thou hast reached
Another point
along the stream of time
Another milestone
on the road of life
The fifty first
the mid‑day of thy prime
When memory takes
thee back to other days
Pointing to
scenes, and contests, ne'er forgot
Who bought thee
thro, whose strength who conquest gave
When all seemed
dark and life had no light spots
Or who, when hopes glad morn to thankful joy gave rise
And hurled despair in triumph from thy face
Bid thee arise rejoicing go thy way
And promised, as thy day, should be me grace.
Wasn't not the
guide of tender youth who bought thee through
Strength of thy
manhood joy of thy decline
In whom is now
thy trust, thy hope of Heaven
So strong, so
sure, built on the rock divine
Charles J. Trundle Brisbane June 22 1858.
The following verses are from my dear wife.
Many happy
returns of your birthday my dear
With mornings
first dawning I greet thee
Long, long,
may'st thou live and every New Year
Find as many glad
faces to meet thee
Fifty years
crowns thy head and though roses
Have not always
perfumed thy way
The thorns in thy
lot but I more firmly
Have equalled thy
strength for the day
A husband or
father more tender
What wife or what
children can bless
In all that
affection can render
Or all a fond heart can express
Many blessings from heaven descending
There's comforting mercy still shed
Religion more perfectly blending
It's holiest grace on thy head
To Mr. Charles Trundle from his affectionate wife.
June 22nd 1858
She gave a
gift before daylight (Written by Charles) this a little fib (Written by Fanny)
Elizabeth Street
APRIL 4th 1859
Important
Memorandums
My children Charles Joseph, Fanny Elizabeth, Annie
Thompson and Fredrick were all named and registered in a book kept in the
Methodist Preacher's house at Harwich in the County of Essex England. Aldred,
Ellen, Elizabeth Aldred, John and Charles James were named at the same place
entered in the same book but this book was kept at the Preacher's house in
Manninglee same county Hannah Mary, Clara Balfour, Edward Thomas, and Henry
Bush were all named and entered in the same book and also in the registrar's
book kept my Mr. Harmon Harrip of Dover Court in the same County These thirteen
children's names were given to Dr. Lang and sent over to this Colony with my
family When we arrived here by the ship "Fortitude" and the list was
given to Mr. Geo. Watson then the Immigration agent in Brisbane. Question! What
became of this list. My youngest child Sarah Salmon Finer I refer to her name
and in the list of births and registered in the Methodist Registry by Mr.
Lightbody.
JUNE 26th 1859
Sunday Morning
This year at the present prospect is likely to be one
of the highest interests to ourselves and dear family. Mr. Wilson Baptist
Minister commenced preaching in the Court House Their preaching have been
generally very acceptable and some of my own family have been greatly benefited
by his administrations and have left our own Methodist Chapel and joined Mr.
Wilson's Church and we that is Mother and myself have been rather influenced by
occasionally hearing this good man, more especially as our own place have been
so badly managed, and the pulpit so badly sustained Added to this (Mr Wilkinson
and Mr. Turner 2 Wesleyan Preachers) displayed a narrow sectarian and bitter
spirits against Mr. Wilson simply because he was talented and useful.
The result was my dear son Charles Joseph has been baptised and joined Mr. Wilson's church his wife also attends the preaching.
My dear son in
law Mr. Pugh with my dear
daughter Pugh have both been baptised the church, my dear son Aldred has also
been baptised the church; my dear son Charles James has also been baptised the
church, my dear daughter Hannah Mary has also joined the church and been
baptised, and also my dear daughter Clara Balfour has been baptised and joined
the church having taken the lead in this most interesting matter and was the
first in the family to come out boldly thereby setting her brothers, sisters,
friends relatives and the world an example worthy to be followed.
Well what did
father and mother do what course did they
pursue
"Answer" This I shall commit to paper at a future
time; observing
that we think very highly of Mr. Wilson and
approve the steps
our children have taken and rejoice in the
Liberty herewith
Christ has made them free I pray that God
may keep them
from evil, guide them by his council and
afterwards
receive them to himself. Amen
Amen.
On Wednesday last June 22nd 1859 was my birthday being
52, all my children came, son in laws daughter in laws and six grandchildren. I
am quite well. To God be all the praise.
BRISBANE, JULY 25th, 1860.
This day I came to live at our new cottage, Ann
Street. With my wife, Fred, Hannah Mary, Henry and Sarah.
AUGUST 4th.
I have spent the last week in Ipswich, the longest
time away from my family since I went over to Hamburg in Germany. On first of
August my dear Ellen was married to Mr. John Julius Franz Rode of Kedron Brook.
OCT 3rd.
All well thank God.
DEC 25th, 1860.
This day my dear son Aldred was married to Miss Mary
Jane Smith of Brisbane. Married by Mr. Wilson.
JAN 1st, 1861.
I thank God all well and this day mother and I spent a
quiet day to ourselves all the children being out in various ways.
JAN 22nd.
My family count
of ourselves Fred, Hannah Mar Teddy, Sarah.
MARCH 31st.
During this quarter my dear Daughter Robinson & my
dear daughter McLean have both been baptised by Mr. Wilson and have both joined
our Church. These circumstances afford me much pleasure.
2nd MAY 1861.
This day my dear son John (my eighth) was married to
Miss Emily Elizabeth Dorothea Rode. It took place at Kedron Brook House, at the
bride’s father. It was a most happy day. All the Rodes family were present; of
my own family self and mother, George and Fanny, Sandy and Elizabeth, Grace,
Sarah, Henry, Clara.
MAY 19th.
Sunday afternoon. My dear children T.P. Pugh, his wife
Annie and Clara, Balfour are to tea with us. All my family are well.
In March 1862 I went to live at Kedron Brook on a farm
of 64 acres called Spring Farm. My household consisted with ourselves, Hannah
Mary, Clara, Sarah and Fredrick and Henry. We resided there till about March
1863 when I came to reside at "Hingham", Petrie Terrace, Brisbane. While
out at Spring Farm we became acquainted with Mr. Thos. S. Henzell and also Mr. J.H. Henzell
and during the year 1863 Mr. T.S. Henzell and my
dear daughter Clara Balfour were married and also T. H. Henzell was married to my dear daughter Hannah Mary at Hingham by
Mr. Wilson, Baptist Minister.
In the year 1864 I left Hingham cottage and went to
reside on the North Quay, a delightful spot and where I am now writing
at this date, Viz June 8th. 1865.
APRIL 15th 1866.
I now wish to enter in a concise way my movements
since my residence on the bank of this river North Quay in the beginning of
1865. Mr. Cameron and myself dissolved partnership as auctioneers. (The firm
Cameron & Trundle became Cameron Bros) My dear son‑in law, Mr. J.H. Henzell commenced as a General Commission agent in
1865 and continued so till this date in the year 1865. Feb 10th I went to
Sydney and my dear Fanny came to me and we spent there nearly a fortnight. In
this Year I built an oven and two small shops at Petrie Terrace and accumulated
a good list of property.
I now come to a part of my life the most trying and
painful both as to business and the loss I have sustained by death, the last
quarter of 1865, trade took a depressive turn in Brisbane and from January 1st
to March 31st 1866 it threatened Brisbane with general bankruptcy I felt the
change so much that I was almost in despair for about a month and in January
the health of my dearest child Annie Pugh began to fail most seriously. This
added to my business trials was indeed severe I had many sleepless nights and
could the furniture in the front room speak they could tell of my agony
tears and prayers The prospect of being reduced to circumstances such as I
pictured and the losing my only councillor was to my mind appalling I have made
up my mind to share more in my dear son Charles Joseph, Theo and my darling
Sarah I cannot distress my dear wife about business matters as she does not
understand me in this respect no more than when we first married although she
would make any sacrifice or do anything to help if need be. On the fourth of
March on Sunday about I pm my dearest child died in the arms and in the
presence of her devoted husband and her affectionate mother I being in great
distress in the adjoining room. I am sure our loss is her gain! But Oh my God
what a loss. I cannot go on under my present feeling and I will resume this
when ray mind is more able. I have much to be merciful for I think I am
sensible of God's mercies and goodness towards me but on the whole I am wretched
miserable and dejected am I would be glad to be laid alongside my darling Annie
to live and lie in the way or to be a burden to my family is now my greatest
dread.
1867 APRIL.
I went into the Immigration Depot as assistant clerk.
With my small salary, Industry great care and economy, I have recovered a great
deal of my property and have paid numerous accounts as the clouds of adversity
are again dispersing. This altercation was
experienced in 1867‑8‑9 to 70 and for which I here record my devout
gratitude and thankfulness and I have to thank your dear mother for her
cooperation economy etc etc. I now want her to leave off buying bottled fruits,
then she will be a dear, and a few other extras.
Christmas day DEC
25th 1868. Signed Charles Trundle.
NORTH QUAY 25TH
JULY 1869
The following paper was read by myself on the 22nd
June 1869 on my sixty-second birthday kept at my dear son in law C.H. Henzell Ann Street Gipp Street, being present
My dear wife
My dear son Charles
Joseph
My dear Grace
My dear Charles
My dear George
My dear Polly
My dear Louisa
My dear Fredrick
My dear Aldred
My dear John Rode
My dear Alan Rode
My dear Charles Rode
My dear May Rode
My dear baby
My dear John Trundle
My dear Emily Trundle
My dear Charles Trundle
My dear baby Trundle
My dear Charles Trundle
My dear Polly Trundle
My dear T.H. Henzell
My dear Hannah Mary
My dear Annie Lumley
My dear Ernest
My dear T.S. Henzell
My dear Clara Henzell
My dear Harrop Henzell
My dear baby Henzell
My dear
Lumley
My dear G.T. Trundle
My dear Charlotte
My dear
Sarah T Franz
My dear
baby Sarah Rode
My dear wife and
children
It affords me very very great pleasure to meet so many
of you on this occasion and to see your dear wives and husbands with the
darling children. I could have wished that my dear Fanny and her husband and
children could be here also with my youngest son Henry. This has taken off some
of the pleasure of the evening.
Since we last met grim death has laid her hand on one
and the number of fourteen reduced to thirteen The loss of my dear Annie was
almost an overwhelming trial so much so that I could not have lived much longer
in that state; I often felt that if I could have had her back again I would
have parted with all and everything ‑this may appear unfeeling and
unnatural towards you my dear wife and children but I must assure you that it
was the finest affection and have towards you that I have aroused myself from
such killing grief; and from that to the present time I dare n t think or speak
of her; nor do I ever look at her Carte
visite least these mementoes should again cause me so much distress and
perhaps shorten my days.
I
trust you my dear children with your partners and children will be long spared
to me; although we must not forget how uncertain are all things in this world.
Since our last gathering the depression which came over the world, the colonies
and our own city have afflicted every family many have the felt the
reverse more than we have done, I think if my life is spared a and I do believe
all few years to regain much that I have lost of you may and Will be in easier
circumstances than the past two or three years.
I desire to suggest or say to my daughters that they
cannot please me more or confer more honour on themselves than by paying great
respect and kindness as their husband’s family and friends and the same I would
desire my sons also to do, to all of you I say. cultivate a spirit of affection
and esteem towards each other daily, your dear mother and I have been married
now nearly forty years To say I love her is a feeble expression and am as
pleased to cut her a ladies piece of Bread and Butter or put on her boots as I
was forty Years ago.
I am 62 years old this day. Few and evil have been the
days Of MY life; yet I must say I have had with You dear mother many sunny
sunny days, I cannot expect to live many more years yet be they many or few
they will they must and should be happy ones if and that is the rule if
my children will be true to themselves, and if they are I have no fear of them
being dutiful and affectionate towards me; I now say goodbye for another year
and may God bless you and your children so pray
Your ever affectionate father Charles Trundle.
During the 12 months from 22nd JUNE 1869 to 22nd JUNE
1870 we have principally lived on the North Quay. I am thankful to say I have
had less anxiety and care than I have had for many years and I have been able
to pay a considerable amount of my mortgage and my property has again grown
into money. I will now make some memorandums as they come into my mind as I
have not written in this book since 22 July 1869 and this is 11th. August 1870.
Still at the Immigration Depot. I am quite well and in
good health and spirits. Dear mother is well and in good spirits. I am about repairing
her, first with some new teeth and am allowing her to do almost what she likes
and I think she will last me a little longer at any rate.
Dear Fanny is at Gympie.
Joseph
is basking in prosperity. My dear Annie's grave I often visit, Fred is with Mr.
Shore, Aldred has just attained to Mares Estate, Ellen is at the station,
Elizabeth and all. her tribe are well, John is well and all his, Charlie Oh
dear, Mary is all right so is dear Clare Edward and his wife and child are well
Henry returned about two months since from a wandering life 12 years since my
baby is darling and two she is, during this year I have been made a great
grandpa by my dear grand daughter Fanny Henzell
This is indeed the climax of prosperity and greatness. I have this year sold my
oven in Petrie Terrace.
My last birthday 22nd June I let pass over without
going out or having anyone to tea. I hope to make up for it next year. My son
Joseph gave me an elegant finger ring, which I value very much, and the
following lines I found on my verandah on the morning of 22nd,
composed for the occasion by my dear grand-daughter Fanny Henzell, having attained the age of 63.
To my dear
grandfather on the anniversary of his birthday
22nd,
June 1870. Aged 63
Dear Grandpa I promise to write in good time
For your birthday a scrap of my musical rhyme
My best I will try and my talent display
By wishing you happy returns of the day.
May you have many pleasures but never feel care
Have plenty to eat and plenty to wear
That your children and grandchildren around you may be
With your little great-grandson who sits on your knee
My ode I am sorry to say is not long
For my pen is not always abundant in song
But the proverb says little is better than none
And I'll offer my rhyme as a tribute to fun
And now in conclusion dear Grandpopee I’ll say
May you see many happy returns of this day
But no more of life's care for you've had your fair
share
And God bless you is ever your Granddaughter's prayer
There are things of a serious nature that I must write
about but I am not in the mood just now so will conclude by invoking God's
blessing on all my children and their families and on all the dear
grandchildren. I now make a few remarks relative to what has occurred during
the time from 26th. June 1870 to June 22nd. 1871. First myself and dear wife
have had most excellent health and spirits and still reside on the North Quay
with Fred, Aldred Charlie and Sarah. Our mercies have much overbalance our
cares and sorrows and my circumstances were never more easy.
My dear son Henry went to Nebo in the Telegraph
Department after being there about a month he had a fall from his horse, which
caused his death. It occurred on Sunday 30th. April on Monday 1st May a
telegram came to announce that sad news that he had fallen from his horse and
was very bad. At six the same evening the following telegram came "Not
changed either way doctors have to ride 63 miles is expected about 8 or 9 this
evening Telegram first thing in morning."
"Second May
6pm much better"
Third October.
I must leave this distressing affliction it's more than I can bear. I will fold up the telegrams
and letters and put them with my private letters to be perused at a future
???????? kissing each letter and telegram a number of times in remembrance of
him whom I would gladly died to save.
I have other trials only known to myself and with all
my large family I feel alone Some I could not be open with having no sympathy
others that have I cannot burden them with my cares and anxieties I feel lonely
and other think I am standing in the way of my family, I would take this
opportunity of instructing my children that they cultivate on their children's
minds not to do anything to vex or grieve their parent when they arrive at man
and womanhood.
Signed Brisbane 4th. October 1871, Charles Trundle.
PS I must record my great obligations for the sympathy
and affections manifested by all my dear children to mother and myself
and more especially for the help and sympathy of my dear sons Joseph and
Edward. May God be with them, I will if I can.
1871 DECEMBER 28th.
I have had my mind painfully exercised during
the last few months in the prospect of losing my darling baby. Two fools
. ‑beset my house day and night for what purpose
they gave my dear wife some suffering and
help so that she could not see and I had to watch constantly or one of them
might have succeeded. The cloud has passed and I am thankful. I cannot bear to
hear her angry for a day to lose her altogether would be my death. Farewell to
1871. I trust I may have my health to battle well with Mr. 1872. I
intend to show him I am all there for the battle and the breeze.
Signed Charles Trundle.
1872
My birthday
this year June 22 was kept by a picnic at Paddington. Had about 40 present,
children, their wives and grand‑children. All seemed to have enjoyed it
and I enjoyed it myself immensely, aged 65. The beginning of August my dear
Fanny was taken seriously ill. I began to be very unhappy least I should lose
her but she is now quite well again and at this date (DEC 3rd) she is a saucy
as ever and I had better not say any more.
(Signed Charles
Trundle)
I am now thankful to record my circumstances
and that of my numerous family are
much improved since 1866-7 and all my children and their husbands and
wives are most kind and affectionate which is a source of great comfort to us.
1873
In January my dear little grandchild Annie Pugh
Trundle died. I felt her death very much She was a timid child but of
very strong affections, she began to conceive great affections for me
She suffered much affliction dear lamb and died very suddenly on and is
interred in the Congregational
Burial Gardens
Brisbane.
I have now to record the death of Mrs. John Rode my
darling child Ellen 22nd February at 1/4 past nine pm she had been unwell
for some time. I dare not think on this bereavement it's so painful, only our
great loss He's her innocence gains she leaves five dear children to lament her
death, Charles, May, Clarence, Laura and dear Millie her age 37 years interred
at the German Station a sacred spot On the 22nd June was my birthday I
was 66 years of age I am thankful I am so well and surrounded with many mercies
the uniform affections manifested by my dear children I esteem my great earthly
comfort. On 23rd September my dear child Sarah was married to Mr. Charles
Stevens and soon after went to Copperfield with my son‑in‑law Mr.
J.H. Henzell to establish the Copperfield Miner.
I was still at the North Quay and in the Immigration Office.
At the end of Feb. 1874 I left the Immigration Office
entirely thro' ill health and came to reside at "Dronama", Breakfast
Creek, where I am now writing this ‑ 5th June 1874 with my dear wife,
Fred and Mrs. Stevens; Mr. Stevens having returned from Copperfield thro' ill
health.
On 17th Feb. 1874 I left the Immigration Depot, and
glad enough was I.
At "Dronama" I fell into bad health and was
very weak for some months. In March 1875 I removed back to the North Quay, with
dear wife, Fred, Mr. and Mrs. Stevens. Soon after my dear son Aldred married
Miss Mary Baynes, an interesting and sweet looking Irish girl. Thus far we are
all very pleased with his choice.
This 22nd June again my birthday ‑ just 68 years
old.
Have just sold my property in Ann Street for the sum
of £500. It has placed me in easy circumstances. I am truly thankful, more so
than I can express in words. I am now quite well. I begin to show signs of not
being young. My dear wife is fine. I intend to enjoy myself as much as my
success will allow. I don't intend to quarrel with anybody but let the world
jog on and I will jog on with it. So no more at present from your humble
servant. Grandpa.
P.S. I will and do now pray that God will bless
all my children, their husbands and their wives, and all the dear
grandchildren and great‑grandchildren.
Wednesday 21st July. 1875.
Best love to my dear Fanny who I had almost forgot.