I don't remember Tom Brigham. All three ladies married Toms and they get mixed in my mind. Remember, this was the age when men hung together socially and women and children stayed , for the most part, out of their way. I know he predeceased her, thus she roomed with her sister in the Marlborough nursing home when she, Lena, John and Lena's Tom Barry went to the home more or less together...actually, John, the oldest, was the last to go there.