Notes for Thamas Barry: When I think of Tom Barry, the first word that comes to mind is gentleman. ...deep voice ...inclined to listen more than talk...and he looked like John L. Sullivan ( look him up). He had white hair which I suspect came to him very early, but his brows were black and bushy, and great coloring. The Libby's tended to be very pale. A handsome man to the end. They had no children. Tom roomed with John Libby in the Marlboro Nursing home while his wife Lena and her sister Alice roomed together. I suspect that in their late eighties, this was a financially practical arangement. John was annoyed...but everything annoyed John in his last decade. Ellen wasn't there to cater to him. I believe Tom predeceased Lena. I was living in Missouri when they all went, so I have lost track of the order of their going.